I'll hate it too, just for your sake.
Sometimes poker is easy and other times... just ask Cardgrrl. I usually think, if he has AA, I'm buggered, if not, I'm good. Not much you can do about it. Most of the time he won't have AA.
I don't hate poker. I just hate Jacks. They lose way more for me than they have ever won.
Set over set sucks. Thankfully, it doesn't happen all often.